FAQ
1. WHAT IS The Omaha Spanking Society?
We are a private, membership based social club for adults who wish to practice safe, sane, consensual spanking both in and out of a group setting. While other aspects of BDSM are frequently of additional interest to some club members, our main focus is spanking. However, it is possible you may see scenes other than spanking enacted in public spaces (i.e. bondage, flogging, caning, etc.). We ask you be as respectful of these scenes, as you would an otk spanking scene. Regarding more hardcore BDSM activities, we request that these practices be limited to private rooms, and designated party suites.
2. HOW DO I BECOME A MEMBER?
To become a member of the Omaha Spanking Society, you must first fill out a membership application. Please remember it is VERY important you fill out the ENTIRE application. applications are provided at socials as well as at the event location before the event starts. If you are a member of Whispers Omaha, Your membership will carry over.
3. WHO ARE WE?
We’re just like everyone else: many of us are married, with or without kids; many of us are single and may be looking for our ideal life partner. We represent every possible occupation, from accountant and engineer to chemist, truck driver, actor, and doctor. We are all ethnicities, ages, economic backgrounds, sexual orientations and identities. Our ratio of men to women at parties is about 50/50, and we regulate party attendance to try and maintain that figure.
4. WHO MAY ATTEND PARTIES?
Only Members in good standing may attend parties (see “How Do I Become a Member”, above, for details). Pets are not permitted, as they cannot give consent to be spanked! We operate as a private club, open to all people, regardless ofrace, color, sexuality/sexual orientation, gender orientation and/or expression, age, handicap, nationality or creed. However, we believe bullying behavior, false accusations and bigotry of any kind is incompatible with our scene and our club. Those engaging in these practices will not be welcome at Omaha Spanking Society events. Likewise for people with predatory tendencies, and stalkers. Thus, as a private club, we reserve the right of refusal to any person or persons we deem unsuitable for membership in Omaha Spanking Society.
5. PRIVACY AND POSITIVE IDENTIFICATION.
For the safety of our other guests, ALL persons wishing to attend a party MUST provide positive proof of their identity the first time you attend a party. This can be done with either a photo drivers license, passport, or other government issued photo ID. We require your real name, mailing address and phone number, to be able to identify you to the police should Management consider that to be necessary. Access to this information will be restricted to the active Board Members of Omaha Spanking Society, and not released without your permission, save as noted above. You may be known at the party under any name you wish, which will be used on your name tag. If you cannot abide revealing your true identity to the Omaha Spanking Society Board, then you should not attempt to attend a party! We’re sorry, but for the protection of all members, NO exceptions to this requirement will be made for any reason.
6. WHAT IS ALLOWED AT A Omaha Spanking Society PARTY?
We are all adults (minimum age 19), and the club has no say in what takes place behind closed doors among consenting adults. That said, intimate sexual contact, drinking of alcoholic beverages, and drugs, are not permitted in group areas. Everyone is expected to be on their best behavior; inappropriate touching or fondling of anyone WILL result in prompt expulsion from the party and the club. NO MEANS NO!
You should also be aware, some people may play at a level of intensity which may not interest, or may even offend you, without violating our Code of Conduct. If that happens, simply turn away and observe something else. Just because someone else is getting whipped, caned, or whatever, don’t think anyone expects you to do it, too. However, if someone politely asks you, please don’t be offended either.
You can expect to see spanking with or without implements; over clothes or on the bare bottom; one-on-one or (sometimes) two-on-one; one spanking with everyone else watching, or everyone spanking at once. ALL of these activities and more can be expected in the party room at one time or another. We may play or organize games to break the ice and get people into a party mood, or we may not! Above all else, HAVE FUN!!
All party suites are NO SMOKING areas. Smokers must go outside to light up.
7. IS THERE A DRESS CODE?
There is no formal dress code for Omaha Spanking Society events.
Also think hygiene! Unclean persons won’t get to play, and may well be invited to leave and not return. Have respect for yourself and those about you. Don’t eat a meal beforehand that tends to give you gas!
Clean and attractive is the key, regardless of whether you spank or get spanked. Whether top or bottom, women like men who are well dressed, clean smelling, friendly and confident. Some women like to spank authoritatively dressed men, others like to be spanked by them. We strongly urge our members to take advantage of Fetlife, and get to know the other members who will be attending each party, well in advance of the event. That way, you won’t be total strangers when you actually meet in-person.
Remember, no matter what you are wearing, male or female, every spanker must get your permission before raising or lowering anything.
8. SAFETY CONCERNS.
Every spankee is required to have a safeword, which in the absence of other arrangements is “RED”. Commonly used safe-words include the “green – yellow – red ” sequence, and “mercy”. Spankers are required to instantly and without question STOP if the safeword is used. Use of the safeword terminates the scene, unless and until resumed by mutual consent. Spankees who fail to use their “SAFEWORD” when their limits are exceeded have only themselves to blame for what may follow. Discuss safewords and limits before beginning a spanking.
Omaha Spanking Society and security will work to prevent problems of friction between our group and “vanillas” in the same wing or floor of the hotel. While the members of the club can be expected to act as concerned citizens in any situation involving disputes between attendees, including providing physical protection for anyone who may be in fear of another, we are not the police and cannot act as police officers. You should generally comport yourself as you would at any cocktail party or adult social event. Physical violence, anger, verbal abuse or other uncouth behavior is cause for eviction from the party, and even the club.
9. WHAT DOES IT COST TO ATTEND A PARTY?
Prices my vary depending on location and length of event.
Omaha Spanking Society/Whispers Omaha/Verbitron Media .Inc DOES NOT OFFER REFUNDS on party fees (we already spent your money to host the party, whether you attend or not). If you cannot attend a party for which you have paid, you must inform us no later than 72 hours prior to the start of the party. Once we are informed you cannot attend, you will have a 1 year credit which you may apply to the following event. If you do not inform us of your inability to attend within the required time frame, you will forfeit your party fee.
10. WHAT PAPERWORK IS REQUIRED?
Read the Rules. When you sign the Application Form, you are agreeing to abide by these rules, so please read them first! Some Events also might come with slightly different rules or regulations depending on our Venue. These rules will be provided at the time of the event. Membership applications and waivers will also be provided before the event.